Part of a wedding DJ's job is to help their clients infuse every aspect of the wedding with personality and style, and the first wedding dance is no exception. Sure, some people have their reasons for choosing an old standby (Etta James' "At Last," anyone?), but the first dance at a wedding is the perfect time for a couple to make a statement about their unique relationship and their dreams for the future.
Still, many couples draw a blank when it comes to finding that one special song. Here is some advice for planners to share with their clients to help them along the way.
Find the tempo and mood that's right for you. Maybe it's slow and romantic, maybe it's gentle and whimsical, maybe it's upbeat and rockin'. Choosing the style of song that suits you will make you much more comfortable on the dance floor, and in some cases, can say a lot about your personalities!
Think back to experiences you've shared as a couple. Recall the movies and TV shows you've seen, concerts you've attended, even songs you heard together in a bar or another wedding. (Couples' nostalgia is what's made Dave Matthews a popular choice for wedding first dances!)
Look for innovative covers of old classics. Maybe a cool cover version exists of a song your parents or grandparents danced to at their own wedding. Cover songs are also a great way to work in some of today's artists in a way that appeals to a wide variety of ages.
Consider making your first and last dance a special surprise. One of you gets to choose the first dance, one chooses the last dance. Keep the songs a secret from one another, giving the titles and artists directly to the DJ. The rush of surprise and emotion as each person hears the other's selection for the first time is guaranteed to make the wedding even more special.
Choosing a song to use for the bride and groom’s first dance is an important task. Your first dance on that special day will be remembered forever. You′ll want to make sure that the song you choose suits both of your interests and style. If you have no clue what to pick for the perfect first dance, here is a top 25 most requested Perfect First Dance list.
1 Paisley, Brad - Then
2 Black Eyed Peas - I Gotta Feeling
3 James, Etta - At Last
4 Mraz, Jason & Colbie Caillat - Lucky
5 Lonestar - Amazed
6 Rascal Flatts - Bless The Broken Road
7 Buble, Michael - Everything
8 Train - Marry Me
9 Lamontagne, Ray - You Are The Best Thing
10 Urban, Keith - Only You Can Love Me This Way
11 Matthews Band, Dave - You And Me
12 Mcgraw, Tim - My Best Friend
13 Strait, George - I Cross My Heart
14 Adele - Make You Feel My Love
15 Johnson, Jack - Better Together
16 Presley, Elvis - Can't Help Falling In Love
17 Mcgraw, Tim With Faith Hill - It's Your Love
18 Chesney, Kenny - Me And You
19 Urban, Keith - Making Memories Of Us
20 Sinatra, Frank - The Way You Look Tonight
21 Aerosmith - I Don't Want To Miss A Thing
22 Green, Al - Let's Stay Together
23 Clapton, Eric - Wonderful Tonight
24 Mraz, Jason - I'm Yours
25 Jones, Norah - Come Away With Me
Talk with your Move It Music DJ; we are here to assist you in every aspect of your special day!
